Bersangka baik is not easy. I am training myself to do so by reminding myself:1. Reciprocity is not always possible; I could never be good to Allah SWT as He has always been good to me, so I cannot expect other people to return in kind my deeds. Not to mention I wouldn't want people to reciprocate my evil.2. What matters is what I do to people and for people, not what other people do to me. But I must take not, appreciate, and try to reciprocate the good that people actually do for me. *grin*We need daily reminders to be better, sugar and it's the struggle that improves us, not the goal.*hugs*
sue- about to hug back... but then saw the look on uncle KAR's face :Pthanks a bunch for all the support you've given though!
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